If you are not a professional real estate person/agent, you are bound to go through hell if you have a property you want to sell. Or buy, for that matter. But buyers can be assured of a certain amount of security if they are dealing with reputed real estate developers. And Kochi being in a state of flux right now, with the impending Smart City and Metro Rail developments, both buyers and sellers are looking for bargains. Prices have shot up abnormally, stabilising to a tableau phase in the past couple of months. But sellers are still on their high horse, sure that the only way to go (for land prices) is up. Add to that the tentative 'fair prices' for land announced by the state, which is up for review. Quite high, by any standards. The govt wants to ensure that its coffers stay full, and that people do not try to trick it out its due (registration fees, taxes, etc.). But is the average buyer ready to bear the cost?
Well, amid all this hungama, here we are with our three-year-old villa on the market. Dealing with seasoned real estate agents has never been our forte. So what do we do when one such real estate agent (a retired policeman) approaches us to buy the house? He quoted a very low price at first, which we flatly refused; so he upped the quote by a straight Rs 5 lakh!! And he calls Abhi every day, asking to close the deal. Abhi is understandably reluctant; he has a gut feeling the guy is not all he seems to be, and he is wondering if this is some sort of trick. And now that there are other interested buyers, this guy is matching them quote from quote!!
Dunno what to do........ Waawaah
Monday, 2 June 2008
Saturday, 31 May 2008
Bus journey
It's been ages since I've been on a bus, and it was good fun this time. Sitting on that city bus, the breeze in my face and plugged into Race Saanson Ki on an FM channel (Rainbow, I think), it was an easy ride.
I am a mostly anti-bus person. I know that's not the most environment-friendly comment to make but before you jump on me, do take into consideration five-plus years of horrible bus journeys on jam-packed buses, with every other person seeming to be a pervert who seemed to be there just to feel up the women. And, God, was Thiruvananathapuram the worst of it!! If any of you reading this are planning a trip to that mostly sleepy capital city of ours, stay off the buses, unless it's for a short ride (just for the experience) on an uncrowded route. Some of the roads there are just beautiful and you would be better off just walking down them; a feast for your senses, if you ignore the rude people. Sorry, I am just not a fan of the capital.
So it was with great thrill that I relocated to Kochi when I joined The Week as a sub editor trainee. That was six years back, and I have grown to love this city a while lot though I do miss the fact that there is not much happening here on the cultural scene.
What I like best here is the fact is that the people are so open and hospitable, a refreshing change to cold Tvm, where you are either looked down upon or ignored. And single women have a tough time finding apartments in that city. Not that they have it easy in Kochi, but at least there's hope in the changing scenario of a fast-evolving city, and empathy from fellowmen.
Sitting on that bus made me happy, happy that I have chosen this city to call 'home'. Every time I return from a trip to my parents' or in-laws' place, I get that feeling: it starts as a warmth in the pit of my stomach as we near Kochi and builds to an all-encompassing cheer and a bit of langour sets in. It's good to be home. No, make that great. Absolutely fantastic.
I know, I know: the city is mismanaged, there are waste disposal issues, traffic problems, sanitation issues and God save you from those stingers (mosquitoes, if you have never been here) once monsoon sets in. But you know what, I love this city, warts and all.
I am a mostly anti-bus person. I know that's not the most environment-friendly comment to make but before you jump on me, do take into consideration five-plus years of horrible bus journeys on jam-packed buses, with every other person seeming to be a pervert who seemed to be there just to feel up the women. And, God, was Thiruvananathapuram the worst of it!! If any of you reading this are planning a trip to that mostly sleepy capital city of ours, stay off the buses, unless it's for a short ride (just for the experience) on an uncrowded route. Some of the roads there are just beautiful and you would be better off just walking down them; a feast for your senses, if you ignore the rude people. Sorry, I am just not a fan of the capital.
So it was with great thrill that I relocated to Kochi when I joined The Week as a sub editor trainee. That was six years back, and I have grown to love this city a while lot though I do miss the fact that there is not much happening here on the cultural scene.
What I like best here is the fact is that the people are so open and hospitable, a refreshing change to cold Tvm, where you are either looked down upon or ignored. And single women have a tough time finding apartments in that city. Not that they have it easy in Kochi, but at least there's hope in the changing scenario of a fast-evolving city, and empathy from fellowmen.
Sitting on that bus made me happy, happy that I have chosen this city to call 'home'. Every time I return from a trip to my parents' or in-laws' place, I get that feeling: it starts as a warmth in the pit of my stomach as we near Kochi and builds to an all-encompassing cheer and a bit of langour sets in. It's good to be home. No, make that great. Absolutely fantastic.
I know, I know: the city is mismanaged, there are waste disposal issues, traffic problems, sanitation issues and God save you from those stingers (mosquitoes, if you have never been here) once monsoon sets in. But you know what, I love this city, warts and all.
Wednesday, 28 May 2008
Children see, children do
It's probably the most cliched saying out there but like most cliches, it's so bang on the spot!!
Happened to see a new video on a friend's profile in orkut that drives home the point. Liked it so much I added it to my page as well: it shows parents drinking, getting mad on the road, abusing others, and their children (hanging around like shadows, as in real life) doing the same. Ends on a good note, though...
Are we doing enough good? Perhaps not. Yesterday, I took my daughter down to play. We live in a multi-storey apartment and there's not much by way of a play area but kids play in and around the driveway and parking lots (when the main gate is closed). There was a 20-something and her kid cousins; the boys were teaching her to ride a bicycle. Took me right back to my school days when I used to ride to school. In fact, I could see this girl doing exactly what I used to; the wrong thing, that is: staring at the handlebars rather than the road ahead. Is there a parallel to our lives in there?
Well, anyways, she had to weave around a couple of enthusiastic toddlers and preschoolers, my own two-going-on-twenty year-old included. There was this other little girl there, a little older than three, with her mother. The mother is a quiet sort, not inclined to much conversation, and very much under the thumb of her mother. She is on permanent vacation with her mother, so to speak. The mother prefers to keep her only daughter and her two little girls to herself and rarely allows them to visit her dentist-husband based in the Middle East. Perhaps all this history will serve to explain the incident I am about to describe.
The three-year-old, let's call her Sammy, is being brought up exclusively on her grandmother's ideas and ideals (which include non-tolerance of other religions, a less-than-kindly attitude to the opposite sex and a general miserly attitude to money and life). Forgive me if I sound biased; I am. Sammy wanted to play with Ditu's tricycle and I let her. My little mad hatter prefers other kids' stuff, anyways, and the more broken-down it is, the better. So she got onto Sammy's cycle (her legs barely grazing the ground) and toed away relentlessly. Sammy made some tart remarks to Ditu and I thought to myself, "The things these kids learn in school!"
But perhaps it wasn't learnt in school, I realised, when she came cycling past me and yelled, "Make sure you keep my cycle back in place after you are with it!" And believe me, when said in Malayalam, there was no mistaking the child's tone or her amazing rudeness. Tempted as I was to yell the same back at her, I bit my lip and focused on Ditu's miserable attempts to go around the building while Sammy's mother beamed in pride at her child's precocious words.
A pregnant friend of mine, on her evening walk, turned me to said, "There is nothing childish about that child!" Yes, I thought. That little girl was already turning into her grandmother, a woman widowed in her forties and with a penchant for telling others how to live their lives. She is so adamant that only her way is right that half the year, she goes away to her hometown after having picked a fight with one of the neighbours in the building. The last time she did that was when a couple of the boys said they wouldn't play with the girls anymore and Sammy got upset. The grandmother charged on the little fellas, yelling at them for making her 'baby' cry. And she was kinda bugged with me, too, I think for being the mother of an 'alienated' girl and not saying anything about it. Ditu did snivel a bit at being excluded but then she found her own thing to do, which would have been Sammy's way if she hadn't been so cossetted.
I remembered when I had first seen her, when she was just about a year old: bright-eyed and eager to experiment with Ditu's toys. How much the child has changed!!
Parenting is not just another day-to-day activity; it's the shaping of a personality through a lot of everyday interactions. And it's not just our interactions with the child that matter, but our relationship with others and our outlook on life. I sometimes feel that we as parents are so caught up in the chores of nappy-changing, meal-making, etc. that we forget the essentials. Children, I strongly believe, are God's gift to us. And He could not have chosen a more profound gift. These little things are a constant reminder to better ourselves so that we can better them.
Do I sound like one of those supermoms? God (and all my friends and family) know I am not. :)But I do try. After all, they are watching. And learning.
Happened to see a new video on a friend's profile in orkut that drives home the point. Liked it so much I added it to my page as well: it shows parents drinking, getting mad on the road, abusing others, and their children (hanging around like shadows, as in real life) doing the same. Ends on a good note, though...
Are we doing enough good? Perhaps not. Yesterday, I took my daughter down to play. We live in a multi-storey apartment and there's not much by way of a play area but kids play in and around the driveway and parking lots (when the main gate is closed). There was a 20-something and her kid cousins; the boys were teaching her to ride a bicycle. Took me right back to my school days when I used to ride to school. In fact, I could see this girl doing exactly what I used to; the wrong thing, that is: staring at the handlebars rather than the road ahead. Is there a parallel to our lives in there?
Well, anyways, she had to weave around a couple of enthusiastic toddlers and preschoolers, my own two-going-on-twenty year-old included. There was this other little girl there, a little older than three, with her mother. The mother is a quiet sort, not inclined to much conversation, and very much under the thumb of her mother. She is on permanent vacation with her mother, so to speak. The mother prefers to keep her only daughter and her two little girls to herself and rarely allows them to visit her dentist-husband based in the Middle East. Perhaps all this history will serve to explain the incident I am about to describe.
The three-year-old, let's call her Sammy, is being brought up exclusively on her grandmother's ideas and ideals (which include non-tolerance of other religions, a less-than-kindly attitude to the opposite sex and a general miserly attitude to money and life). Forgive me if I sound biased; I am. Sammy wanted to play with Ditu's tricycle and I let her. My little mad hatter prefers other kids' stuff, anyways, and the more broken-down it is, the better. So she got onto Sammy's cycle (her legs barely grazing the ground) and toed away relentlessly. Sammy made some tart remarks to Ditu and I thought to myself, "The things these kids learn in school!"
But perhaps it wasn't learnt in school, I realised, when she came cycling past me and yelled, "Make sure you keep my cycle back in place after you are with it!" And believe me, when said in Malayalam, there was no mistaking the child's tone or her amazing rudeness. Tempted as I was to yell the same back at her, I bit my lip and focused on Ditu's miserable attempts to go around the building while Sammy's mother beamed in pride at her child's precocious words.
A pregnant friend of mine, on her evening walk, turned me to said, "There is nothing childish about that child!" Yes, I thought. That little girl was already turning into her grandmother, a woman widowed in her forties and with a penchant for telling others how to live their lives. She is so adamant that only her way is right that half the year, she goes away to her hometown after having picked a fight with one of the neighbours in the building. The last time she did that was when a couple of the boys said they wouldn't play with the girls anymore and Sammy got upset. The grandmother charged on the little fellas, yelling at them for making her 'baby' cry. And she was kinda bugged with me, too, I think for being the mother of an 'alienated' girl and not saying anything about it. Ditu did snivel a bit at being excluded but then she found her own thing to do, which would have been Sammy's way if she hadn't been so cossetted.
I remembered when I had first seen her, when she was just about a year old: bright-eyed and eager to experiment with Ditu's toys. How much the child has changed!!
Parenting is not just another day-to-day activity; it's the shaping of a personality through a lot of everyday interactions. And it's not just our interactions with the child that matter, but our relationship with others and our outlook on life. I sometimes feel that we as parents are so caught up in the chores of nappy-changing, meal-making, etc. that we forget the essentials. Children, I strongly believe, are God's gift to us. And He could not have chosen a more profound gift. These little things are a constant reminder to better ourselves so that we can better them.
Do I sound like one of those supermoms? God (and all my friends and family) know I am not. :)But I do try. After all, they are watching. And learning.
Saturday, 14 April 2007
Ennui
What's worse than a Saturday evening with precious little to do? Nothing?!! Think again...
Cos I have decided I would rather count my blessings than pick holes in my life. There's nothing like a positive attitude to zing up your life. And boy, are things moving towards 'all things good'...
Plan to check out the driving school today... for that necessary confidence to traverse the great, not-so-wide free for all that characterise Indian roads.
Also, and more importantly, I have marked a beginning in my writing, by picking up the ...errr.... keyboard and putting down the very first lines of my nocvel/story. let's see how it goes from here. My friend Shevlin, himself a published author, says writing is all about discipline. He should know. Let me see if I can tame my wayward creativity.
Cos I have decided I would rather count my blessings than pick holes in my life. There's nothing like a positive attitude to zing up your life. And boy, are things moving towards 'all things good'...
Plan to check out the driving school today... for that necessary confidence to traverse the great, not-so-wide free for all that characterise Indian roads.
Also, and more importantly, I have marked a beginning in my writing, by picking up the ...errr.... keyboard and putting down the very first lines of my nocvel/story. let's see how it goes from here. My friend Shevlin, himself a published author, says writing is all about discipline. He should know. Let me see if I can tame my wayward creativity.
Monday, 2 April 2007
When baby's unwell
Nothing goes straight when Dita's not well. Her fever was up (nearly 101 and above) and we were down. Dr Ravi has prescribed some antiseptics. Hope it works...
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Monday, 2 June 2008
Selling land? Be prepared for hell
If you are not a professional real estate person/agent, you are bound to go through hell if you have a property you want to sell. Or buy, for that matter. But buyers can be assured of a certain amount of security if they are dealing with reputed real estate developers. And Kochi being in a state of flux right now, with the impending Smart City and Metro Rail developments, both buyers and sellers are looking for bargains. Prices have shot up abnormally, stabilising to a tableau phase in the past couple of months. But sellers are still on their high horse, sure that the only way to go (for land prices) is up. Add to that the tentative 'fair prices' for land announced by the state, which is up for review. Quite high, by any standards. The govt wants to ensure that its coffers stay full, and that people do not try to trick it out its due (registration fees, taxes, etc.). But is the average buyer ready to bear the cost?
Well, amid all this hungama, here we are with our three-year-old villa on the market. Dealing with seasoned real estate agents has never been our forte. So what do we do when one such real estate agent (a retired policeman) approaches us to buy the house? He quoted a very low price at first, which we flatly refused; so he upped the quote by a straight Rs 5 lakh!! And he calls Abhi every day, asking to close the deal. Abhi is understandably reluctant; he has a gut feeling the guy is not all he seems to be, and he is wondering if this is some sort of trick. And now that there are other interested buyers, this guy is matching them quote from quote!!
Dunno what to do........ Waawaah
Well, amid all this hungama, here we are with our three-year-old villa on the market. Dealing with seasoned real estate agents has never been our forte. So what do we do when one such real estate agent (a retired policeman) approaches us to buy the house? He quoted a very low price at first, which we flatly refused; so he upped the quote by a straight Rs 5 lakh!! And he calls Abhi every day, asking to close the deal. Abhi is understandably reluctant; he has a gut feeling the guy is not all he seems to be, and he is wondering if this is some sort of trick. And now that there are other interested buyers, this guy is matching them quote from quote!!
Dunno what to do........ Waawaah
Saturday, 31 May 2008
Bus journey
It's been ages since I've been on a bus, and it was good fun this time. Sitting on that city bus, the breeze in my face and plugged into Race Saanson Ki on an FM channel (Rainbow, I think), it was an easy ride.
I am a mostly anti-bus person. I know that's not the most environment-friendly comment to make but before you jump on me, do take into consideration five-plus years of horrible bus journeys on jam-packed buses, with every other person seeming to be a pervert who seemed to be there just to feel up the women. And, God, was Thiruvananathapuram the worst of it!! If any of you reading this are planning a trip to that mostly sleepy capital city of ours, stay off the buses, unless it's for a short ride (just for the experience) on an uncrowded route. Some of the roads there are just beautiful and you would be better off just walking down them; a feast for your senses, if you ignore the rude people. Sorry, I am just not a fan of the capital.
So it was with great thrill that I relocated to Kochi when I joined The Week as a sub editor trainee. That was six years back, and I have grown to love this city a while lot though I do miss the fact that there is not much happening here on the cultural scene.
What I like best here is the fact is that the people are so open and hospitable, a refreshing change to cold Tvm, where you are either looked down upon or ignored. And single women have a tough time finding apartments in that city. Not that they have it easy in Kochi, but at least there's hope in the changing scenario of a fast-evolving city, and empathy from fellowmen.
Sitting on that bus made me happy, happy that I have chosen this city to call 'home'. Every time I return from a trip to my parents' or in-laws' place, I get that feeling: it starts as a warmth in the pit of my stomach as we near Kochi and builds to an all-encompassing cheer and a bit of langour sets in. It's good to be home. No, make that great. Absolutely fantastic.
I know, I know: the city is mismanaged, there are waste disposal issues, traffic problems, sanitation issues and God save you from those stingers (mosquitoes, if you have never been here) once monsoon sets in. But you know what, I love this city, warts and all.
I am a mostly anti-bus person. I know that's not the most environment-friendly comment to make but before you jump on me, do take into consideration five-plus years of horrible bus journeys on jam-packed buses, with every other person seeming to be a pervert who seemed to be there just to feel up the women. And, God, was Thiruvananathapuram the worst of it!! If any of you reading this are planning a trip to that mostly sleepy capital city of ours, stay off the buses, unless it's for a short ride (just for the experience) on an uncrowded route. Some of the roads there are just beautiful and you would be better off just walking down them; a feast for your senses, if you ignore the rude people. Sorry, I am just not a fan of the capital.
So it was with great thrill that I relocated to Kochi when I joined The Week as a sub editor trainee. That was six years back, and I have grown to love this city a while lot though I do miss the fact that there is not much happening here on the cultural scene.
What I like best here is the fact is that the people are so open and hospitable, a refreshing change to cold Tvm, where you are either looked down upon or ignored. And single women have a tough time finding apartments in that city. Not that they have it easy in Kochi, but at least there's hope in the changing scenario of a fast-evolving city, and empathy from fellowmen.
Sitting on that bus made me happy, happy that I have chosen this city to call 'home'. Every time I return from a trip to my parents' or in-laws' place, I get that feeling: it starts as a warmth in the pit of my stomach as we near Kochi and builds to an all-encompassing cheer and a bit of langour sets in. It's good to be home. No, make that great. Absolutely fantastic.
I know, I know: the city is mismanaged, there are waste disposal issues, traffic problems, sanitation issues and God save you from those stingers (mosquitoes, if you have never been here) once monsoon sets in. But you know what, I love this city, warts and all.
Wednesday, 28 May 2008
Children see, children do
It's probably the most cliched saying out there but like most cliches, it's so bang on the spot!!
Happened to see a new video on a friend's profile in orkut that drives home the point. Liked it so much I added it to my page as well: it shows parents drinking, getting mad on the road, abusing others, and their children (hanging around like shadows, as in real life) doing the same. Ends on a good note, though...
Are we doing enough good? Perhaps not. Yesterday, I took my daughter down to play. We live in a multi-storey apartment and there's not much by way of a play area but kids play in and around the driveway and parking lots (when the main gate is closed). There was a 20-something and her kid cousins; the boys were teaching her to ride a bicycle. Took me right back to my school days when I used to ride to school. In fact, I could see this girl doing exactly what I used to; the wrong thing, that is: staring at the handlebars rather than the road ahead. Is there a parallel to our lives in there?
Well, anyways, she had to weave around a couple of enthusiastic toddlers and preschoolers, my own two-going-on-twenty year-old included. There was this other little girl there, a little older than three, with her mother. The mother is a quiet sort, not inclined to much conversation, and very much under the thumb of her mother. She is on permanent vacation with her mother, so to speak. The mother prefers to keep her only daughter and her two little girls to herself and rarely allows them to visit her dentist-husband based in the Middle East. Perhaps all this history will serve to explain the incident I am about to describe.
The three-year-old, let's call her Sammy, is being brought up exclusively on her grandmother's ideas and ideals (which include non-tolerance of other religions, a less-than-kindly attitude to the opposite sex and a general miserly attitude to money and life). Forgive me if I sound biased; I am. Sammy wanted to play with Ditu's tricycle and I let her. My little mad hatter prefers other kids' stuff, anyways, and the more broken-down it is, the better. So she got onto Sammy's cycle (her legs barely grazing the ground) and toed away relentlessly. Sammy made some tart remarks to Ditu and I thought to myself, "The things these kids learn in school!"
But perhaps it wasn't learnt in school, I realised, when she came cycling past me and yelled, "Make sure you keep my cycle back in place after you are with it!" And believe me, when said in Malayalam, there was no mistaking the child's tone or her amazing rudeness. Tempted as I was to yell the same back at her, I bit my lip and focused on Ditu's miserable attempts to go around the building while Sammy's mother beamed in pride at her child's precocious words.
A pregnant friend of mine, on her evening walk, turned me to said, "There is nothing childish about that child!" Yes, I thought. That little girl was already turning into her grandmother, a woman widowed in her forties and with a penchant for telling others how to live their lives. She is so adamant that only her way is right that half the year, she goes away to her hometown after having picked a fight with one of the neighbours in the building. The last time she did that was when a couple of the boys said they wouldn't play with the girls anymore and Sammy got upset. The grandmother charged on the little fellas, yelling at them for making her 'baby' cry. And she was kinda bugged with me, too, I think for being the mother of an 'alienated' girl and not saying anything about it. Ditu did snivel a bit at being excluded but then she found her own thing to do, which would have been Sammy's way if she hadn't been so cossetted.
I remembered when I had first seen her, when she was just about a year old: bright-eyed and eager to experiment with Ditu's toys. How much the child has changed!!
Parenting is not just another day-to-day activity; it's the shaping of a personality through a lot of everyday interactions. And it's not just our interactions with the child that matter, but our relationship with others and our outlook on life. I sometimes feel that we as parents are so caught up in the chores of nappy-changing, meal-making, etc. that we forget the essentials. Children, I strongly believe, are God's gift to us. And He could not have chosen a more profound gift. These little things are a constant reminder to better ourselves so that we can better them.
Do I sound like one of those supermoms? God (and all my friends and family) know I am not. :)But I do try. After all, they are watching. And learning.
Happened to see a new video on a friend's profile in orkut that drives home the point. Liked it so much I added it to my page as well: it shows parents drinking, getting mad on the road, abusing others, and their children (hanging around like shadows, as in real life) doing the same. Ends on a good note, though...
Are we doing enough good? Perhaps not. Yesterday, I took my daughter down to play. We live in a multi-storey apartment and there's not much by way of a play area but kids play in and around the driveway and parking lots (when the main gate is closed). There was a 20-something and her kid cousins; the boys were teaching her to ride a bicycle. Took me right back to my school days when I used to ride to school. In fact, I could see this girl doing exactly what I used to; the wrong thing, that is: staring at the handlebars rather than the road ahead. Is there a parallel to our lives in there?
Well, anyways, she had to weave around a couple of enthusiastic toddlers and preschoolers, my own two-going-on-twenty year-old included. There was this other little girl there, a little older than three, with her mother. The mother is a quiet sort, not inclined to much conversation, and very much under the thumb of her mother. She is on permanent vacation with her mother, so to speak. The mother prefers to keep her only daughter and her two little girls to herself and rarely allows them to visit her dentist-husband based in the Middle East. Perhaps all this history will serve to explain the incident I am about to describe.
The three-year-old, let's call her Sammy, is being brought up exclusively on her grandmother's ideas and ideals (which include non-tolerance of other religions, a less-than-kindly attitude to the opposite sex and a general miserly attitude to money and life). Forgive me if I sound biased; I am. Sammy wanted to play with Ditu's tricycle and I let her. My little mad hatter prefers other kids' stuff, anyways, and the more broken-down it is, the better. So she got onto Sammy's cycle (her legs barely grazing the ground) and toed away relentlessly. Sammy made some tart remarks to Ditu and I thought to myself, "The things these kids learn in school!"
But perhaps it wasn't learnt in school, I realised, when she came cycling past me and yelled, "Make sure you keep my cycle back in place after you are with it!" And believe me, when said in Malayalam, there was no mistaking the child's tone or her amazing rudeness. Tempted as I was to yell the same back at her, I bit my lip and focused on Ditu's miserable attempts to go around the building while Sammy's mother beamed in pride at her child's precocious words.
A pregnant friend of mine, on her evening walk, turned me to said, "There is nothing childish about that child!" Yes, I thought. That little girl was already turning into her grandmother, a woman widowed in her forties and with a penchant for telling others how to live their lives. She is so adamant that only her way is right that half the year, she goes away to her hometown after having picked a fight with one of the neighbours in the building. The last time she did that was when a couple of the boys said they wouldn't play with the girls anymore and Sammy got upset. The grandmother charged on the little fellas, yelling at them for making her 'baby' cry. And she was kinda bugged with me, too, I think for being the mother of an 'alienated' girl and not saying anything about it. Ditu did snivel a bit at being excluded but then she found her own thing to do, which would have been Sammy's way if she hadn't been so cossetted.
I remembered when I had first seen her, when she was just about a year old: bright-eyed and eager to experiment with Ditu's toys. How much the child has changed!!
Parenting is not just another day-to-day activity; it's the shaping of a personality through a lot of everyday interactions. And it's not just our interactions with the child that matter, but our relationship with others and our outlook on life. I sometimes feel that we as parents are so caught up in the chores of nappy-changing, meal-making, etc. that we forget the essentials. Children, I strongly believe, are God's gift to us. And He could not have chosen a more profound gift. These little things are a constant reminder to better ourselves so that we can better them.
Do I sound like one of those supermoms? God (and all my friends and family) know I am not. :)But I do try. After all, they are watching. And learning.
Saturday, 14 April 2007
Ennui
What's worse than a Saturday evening with precious little to do? Nothing?!! Think again...
Cos I have decided I would rather count my blessings than pick holes in my life. There's nothing like a positive attitude to zing up your life. And boy, are things moving towards 'all things good'...
Plan to check out the driving school today... for that necessary confidence to traverse the great, not-so-wide free for all that characterise Indian roads.
Also, and more importantly, I have marked a beginning in my writing, by picking up the ...errr.... keyboard and putting down the very first lines of my nocvel/story. let's see how it goes from here. My friend Shevlin, himself a published author, says writing is all about discipline. He should know. Let me see if I can tame my wayward creativity.
Cos I have decided I would rather count my blessings than pick holes in my life. There's nothing like a positive attitude to zing up your life. And boy, are things moving towards 'all things good'...
Plan to check out the driving school today... for that necessary confidence to traverse the great, not-so-wide free for all that characterise Indian roads.
Also, and more importantly, I have marked a beginning in my writing, by picking up the ...errr.... keyboard and putting down the very first lines of my nocvel/story. let's see how it goes from here. My friend Shevlin, himself a published author, says writing is all about discipline. He should know. Let me see if I can tame my wayward creativity.
Monday, 2 April 2007
When baby's unwell
Nothing goes straight when Dita's not well. Her fever was up (nearly 101 and above) and we were down. Dr Ravi has prescribed some antiseptics. Hope it works...
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